Sunday 5 April 2015

the term 'I know how you feel'...

Assalamualaikum... oh mai gord.. its been so dayum long since this blog is/was updated~~~~ hohoho

ok so .. the title is a bit unusual for a title but I'm going to explain about it now..
So have u guys ever been in a situation where you guys are so sad and then your friends come and ask whats wrong... so u explain it  and then they say 'I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL'.. or vice versa..

Well in my opinion i dont think its ideal to say that.. if im pissed off and then someone says 'i know how you feel' ill probably get more pissed off.. Do you know why?? in my opinion... i dont think we have the power to say 'i know how you feel' unless we've been through the exact same situation.

People express feelings differently.. so how can we say 'I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL' it makes no freaking sense to me...

When a person says ' I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL' thats just bull man... sure it happened to us but people experience it differently, the emotion they feel is different.. take for example books.. sure their plot is cliche and its similar, its just how the authors tell us or the twist in stories are different... yeah something like that... so, people you see 'I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL' is a really bull response to me... unless you experience everything the same way..

Sure this term does help certain people.. but... if it was me id just ask you to back off...
like if my friend just lost her grandfather and then u say that term while you still have BOTH grandfather(s).. so tell me how exactly do you know how i feel when you still have both grandfather(s)... well i guess thats all.. LOL this isnt like a furious thing xD hahah... just ma opinions~~~

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