Saturday 18 October 2014

friendly (i guess) reminder xP

Assalamualaikum... hehheeh hahahah.... Its been a while hasnt it. huhuhu....

so basically we jihan have finally passed(?) our final term...  yess *claps..* but that's not what i want to talk about.. i would like to reminder all of us of the things we say.

as we all know words can hurt us.. not physically but emotionally and an emotional pain hurts far worse than physical pain. There is a saying im not sure if the prophet said it or was it stated in the Quran that Words are sharper than knifes... Because what we say is far more worse that the knifes scars that it leaves (please excuse my bad English if it is bad xD)

 People have u ever wondered yg nnt kat qiamat we will be questioned on all the things we do... Including the things we post and say. kat qiamat nnt klau Allah tanye why do we say this and post this and all nak jawab ape... have u guess ever thought of that...

This is why the brain is on top of our heads... above the eyes ears nose and mouth.. Its for us to think before we do stuffs... Alhamdulillah be thankful to Allah.. EVERYTHING He does is for a reason everything He gives is for a reason... sooooo, before we post or say anything.. we think first child (xD)

soooooo in conclusion to all the things ive mention up above is that
1.Everything happens for a reason
2. Alhamdulillah be thankful... ALWAYS...
3. Think before we say or act
4. think before we post and say
5. Think,think,think...

kk thats all byeee Assalamualaikum lovelies.. hehhe
 this has been jihan.. ps 2013 pic xD

Saturday 28 June 2014

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Assalamualaikum..
 heh wow... its been a longggg time since i've last updated this blog...  D: :| and ..umm.... i dont really know what i'll be posting about :| just felt like posting... :|  ummm ummm......... ughh i'm wasting my time... i should be studying since we will be having our mid-term examination starting tomorrow...and i dont think im even close to ready yet ._. :|  aishh... not only that... this tine,the exam's format is gonna be really reallyyyyy reallyyyyyyyyy hard... okay i might be exaggerating a little bit...but its true!! there wont be any objective (bulat bulat A B C D) questions.... ughhh.... looks like we will have to work harder to get good grades... thats right... Allah once mentioned that when we work hard in shaa Allah we'll get what we want ^^ so... everyone hwaiting!! :D Lets work hard together ^^  and wow... Its Ramadhan!!! :D Alhamdulilah...Alhamdulillah... Alhamdulillah ^^ we still have the chance to kumpulkan pahala~~ ^u^ Thank you,Allah! Grab this chance and collect as much pahala as you can!!!! Do MORE good deeds and make sure it continues until the end of your time... or in other words until you die.. try and try and dont stop trying! In shaa Allah...we can do it! (Amin) ^^  Lets work hard for this too!! ^^ wokeyh.. i think thats all for now~~ Assalamualaikum hope this post benefits you readers and myself also.. :{>
Ughh... exams~~ >< *sighs* 

hoping what i post gives benefits to all u people ^^.

Assalamualaikum.... like oh ma gohd it has been like 2 months since this blog was dayum updated. Firstly, Salam Ramadhan to all muslims around the world... do u muslims people know by decreasing our usage of bad words during Ramadhan can help our Ramadhan be more PERFECT ish ^^... so decrease the usage *suspiciously looking at u people out there while wagging my awsum finger.*
 ok so back to the topic where we should reflect upon ourselves. These days... people seems weak when faced with temptations.. temptations like money, wealth, status n etc... now people before you go berserk at this poor blogger do hear my points of view first....

  why im talking about temptations is because i got inspired by the awsum movie Maleficent and Transformers 4... in Maleficent... it was tragic how weak they presented a guy that was too caught up in temptation. As the king guaranteed the king position as a reward if anyone caught maleficent. What once used to be a beautiful,sweet and innocent love story turned our dear maleficent to a cruel monster as the humans would call her. But in the end the good would usually always win... and so did maleficent...

 While in transformers 4... the guy that people believed that he was helping mankind by making a contract with a freaking alien (which no one knew) was tempted by a seed that could help him get wealth and status.. you see people by his mistake he has sacrificed too much 'innocent' people... but in transformers i also learn... humans learn from our mistakes... if so say that guy did not agree then people would not see that they still need the help of transformers... so yeah there are certain benefits sometimes..

so enough with temptations and all...

now to my second thing i wanted to talk/type about...
PEOPLE WHO JUDGES OTHER PEOPLE BY LOOKS...

i can get a bit sensitive by this topic because... firstly its simply bcuz im a victim.. and im sure im not the only one.. the feeling u get when u know u were judged by someone that barely knows you is seriously heart breaking cuz 1. he/she is telling people that u are .....*shtuffs*..... while u are not..
2. its not nice cuz mcm membonggarkan aib(?) ..

in Islam... we are not suppose to bukakkan aib seseorg.. its not nice n its just rude... also those yg kne judged... dont just stand around n get affected... do something... bantah , rebel ape ape jelh... try to clear things up... try making the situation better... But sometimes the judger(person judging u) is not at fault..what if it was your fault... maybe cuz the way you talked or spoke or looked.. but meh.. lets have a better earth

well thats all from me... hehe Assalamualaikum.. ^^ salam eid mubarak.. HAppy Fasting...

Sunday 30 March 2014

i just dont understand~~

Assalamualaikum... hello everyone~~ heheheh kekkeke... so lets discuss today's problem... which is why do guys or boys sometimes want more than one girlfriend....

ok im sorry for the men out there .please dont hate this blog and please dont u know.. dont take it to the heart.... im sure most of the guys that read this blog (are there any?) are awesome guys that are loyal ^^...  also this is only about my curiosity...

so... men, boys, guys , dudes why do need to have more than 1 girlfriend??? is it to make you look cool? is it because it shows that girls are just crazy for you? i mean like come on... please think and view this in a girls perspective.... dont you think girls would be dejected.. sure some girls dig it (i guess) but some girls dont... and most of us are one of it....

im sorry if im being biased on my own gender.... cuz there are also some girls out there are like other people having more than one bf... and again please dont take it to the heart... really.. just think about it...

why in the world must you need more than one... i think its ok if your gf/bf is ok with you having more than 1... but i dont get it.. i really dont... some guys and girls even turn cold.. u no the one thats all poker face and whatnot... but i kinda like that attitude...especially when we are the only one aside from his friends can make him smile... i dont know... maybe cuz it'll make me feel special... hehhehe... kinda weird.. i know.. xP...

well thats all i guess.. till next time.. till i could think of a topic to talk about... till i have the time... till... till.. hehehhe.. bye bye bye.. anyeonghagaseyo....

Assalamualaikum.. urs truly Jihan ^^ xD 


Wednesday 26 March 2014

problems~~~~

Assalamualaikum.... omgosh... it feels like.... eternity since I updated this blog... oh my... so lame!!!

ok so now that im here... i got some problems.... guy problems to be exact... i know i know im still at a young age to have this kinda feelings but hey Allah created emotions how can you fight it back??? somestimes..

so these past few weeks... my emotions was really confusing... it confused the heck outta me......... boy did i did not enjoy that... i thought i like this guy but turns out i didnt actually like him... but what i didnt understand was that (before i realize my own feelings a bit) i felt a bit jealous when he was talking about my best friend my unnie... i didnt understand why i would smile like an idiot when chatting with him.. why i actually tried to steal some glances at him...

so uchik tried to pair me up.. uchik + fwf (this awsum pal) tried to set us up... apperently uchik n fwf was trying to pair me up with guys and she said it ways dayum hard.. but hey im a hard girl (self praise xD). so yeah.... we both knew our feelings for each other but didnt have the guts to confessed....

mmmm.. after quite a long time of chatting he suddenly confessed.... but the weird thing was i only felt a bit happy... not only that but i was extremely calm.... while he was so nervous his fingers were shaking.. (lol.. kinda cute...) he said he has been waiting for 3 years... i was kinda amazed.. since he used to be a playboy.. (i got my ways to get infos..) i dont really trust playboys.. but nevertheless i told him i did have some feelings for him..

i was kinda thankful that he confessed on a thursday night though i would love it if he confessed on the friday night so i wont get teased at... the next day yes i got teased by my friends.... but b4 that i told him that we werent a full couple yet cuz he have to gain my trust n i told him not to tell a soul except fwf... so yeah... back to the present.. i was praying, so i wont meet him during the school hours... cuz i really didnt want to get teased like BADLY!! but luck wasnt on my side.. i did bump into him at snack... n my sis's teased me... wah maluu....

waktu ptg p.e time... i did see him but not near distance but far distance.. he was playing football with his friends.. n i got this really really bad feeling in the stomach until u could cry for no good reason... n that friday night i had camp until sat evening... between those time i realize that i did not like being a couple 1 bit... i felt.. dirty.. dnt no how.. i felt as if i was trapped.. i wasnt free thats how... so i asked uchik for advice cuz she was kinda dating... she said she felt butterflies the good ones.. while i felt a different thing.. so i told him that i wasnt ready n we kinda broke up... uchik was furious for a bit... but hey i need to find my real happiness....

but now were close friends like b4.... so from what i experienced is that... i dnt want to be a couple until i am clear with my feelings.... if its mere/slight/little crushes no i wont 'layan' those feelings... ill ignore it.. so yeah... im still young n im already having these probs... i should focus on study first then... kekkeek...

well thats all... till next time xP..... Assalamualaikum..

Saturday 4 January 2014

Heheeh its been awhile...

So Assalamualaikum..... Hello yello everyone... Its been w long while... I know i know heheeh...... So let jihan just say HAPPY NEW YEAR everyone.. Sorry if we have done anything wrong or whatsoever.... So i just also want to say this year lets be awesomer than last year and lets spread love ... What the what am i saying.. Anyways Alhamdulillah jihan is still togetehr.... And it has been 3 years since jihan was formed.. Arent u guys happy... Or am i the only one???

So anyways.... Lets support jihan and lets be awesome.... Let your inner warrior out when u think it necessary..... You no what i mean... And lets be nice towards each other.,.. Lets stop bullying and cyber bullying....

So i guess thats all... It so random from happy new year to stop bullying but hey we are all random people just waiting to shine... Again random... So thats all...

          Lots of love from the most awesomest group ever formed JIHAN....